May 31, 2017

Use the love and relationship inventory offered here for personal reflection and awareness about the relationships you have with significant others.

Mentally record or write down your answer YES or NO or True/Untrueand be aware of your emotional responses and memories w...

April 21, 2017

The disease to please begins early in life when as daughters we learn about what makes our mothers happy or unhappy.  We learn to respond to her rules and conditions because our main desire is to gain her love.  Some of those expectations we can fulfil while others may...

April 14, 2017

Reaching back into your personal ancestry can be revealing in terms of the conscious and unconscious patterns of behaviour which run through generations of your female timeline.  We will discuss not only learned behaviours from our predecessors, but also ancestral memo...

March 12, 2017

Childhood conditioning, rules, beliefs and behavioural patterning

February 4, 2017

Every daughter on the planet will at some time question herself as to who she is and what she wants from life.  She will review what aspects of her mother’s character and behaviour she wants to adopt. 

In adolescence generally, as young women we want to experiment...

January 29, 2017

Your mother will have her own personal identity based on the stigma of how she believed a mother ‘should be’ passed down to her by her own mother, family culture and societal influence.  Her education, upbringing, family of origin and caregivers all shaped her identity...

January 23, 2017

Mothers or a mother figure are our primary source for learning the daughter role.   A daughter’s individual identity depends on her capacity to adopt her mother’s characteristics, much of which happens subconsciously. 

A daughter’s natural inclination is to id...

January 15, 2017

Words, especially yelled in anger, can be very damaging to a child’s self-confidence.  The child probably already feels bad enough just from seeing the consequences of his or her behaviour.  Our sons and daughters don’t need more guilt and self-doubt heaped upon their...

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